When life gets you down you have to consider what is good in your life, what you are thankful for. Over the years I have been slowly and carefully surrounding myself with some of the finest freethinking people this earth currently knows. Meticulously, I have picked the myriad that is my best friends. Each one different and unique in their own way- each one I love more then life its self. They after all, are my life. Here is a little tit-bit about them. In no particular order:
Andrea: My buddy, always there with a caring mind when I need her, always there with a glass of wine and a chick flick to ease my mind. I love shopping with her (and I think Daniel loves it too…so he doesn’t have to). When I am with Andrea I can be myself, I can relax. Her insecurities and my insecurities are the opposite, which together makes us one really confident or really insecure person…usually confident though. I always have fun with her. Our friendship is built up on a foundation of respect. Other then that one time she forgot to pick me up…I have never felt rejected, down, or worthless when with Andrea (and Dan). She is my true best friend, my #1 buddy, my amiga, and I am so thankful just to know her.
Stephanie: The Denny’s friend, the best friend that I can’t seem to get rid of. I am pretty sure I have clocked in more hours with her then anyone else on this earth. In the past month I have seen her 8 out of every 10 days…at least. I love being with Stephanie. I love pushing her buttons. I love making things awkward. I love laughing with her. We always have a good time. We always push the bar. We regularly try new things. I care for her like I would a sister; I think I treat her pretty much like a sister. None The less I love her, and no matter what, will always have a special place for my Stephanie. Always.
Bethany: What can I say about the sweetest, kindness, most awesome human that has ever lived? Bethany is my hero. She is the model of how people should live and think, the closest thing we have to perfection. She is my ideal friend. She respects people, she cares about people, she is there for you, oh!, and she loves shopping and has good taste. Perfect. Bethany is the best. With her I always feel loved and comfortable. She is and will forever be one of my best friends and I love her to death.
Hannah: Oh my Hannah, we have had so many good times together. Remember the time you stole $8 from me? I forgive you. I miss the days of chillin at the mandolin. But alas, we both go to universities now and thus are busy. You have no idea how much I miss you. Just hanging out with you is so much fun. Talking “stuff” about the church and friends…I miss that so. Don’t forget about me as you make all these cool new friends. I do and will always have a place in my heart for my Hannah. MY HANNAH!!!
Ashley: Some day I am going to buy you a “nigger fish” (aka Niger Trigger). Every time I see one now I nearly hit the floor laughing. That is one of the many things Ashley brings me, the gift of laughter- also unconditional love and understanding. She is a true friend, and I love her so much for it. I will never under any circumstances part with her. She forces me to try new things and make a fool of myself and I love every second of it. When I am with her, I am 8 years old again. Who can I say I have had better times with? We can do so much with so little. I LOVE HER!, not a day goes by I don’t think about my Ashley down there in Cali.
Rhona: Oh my precious Rhoner! I miss her SO much. I miss her more then anything or one ever. Every day I wish I was giving her a hug and ordering us some Mojitos. She is and will always be one of my best friends; I don’t care in the least how long we are apart. She is the older sister I wish I had. She is the cherry on top of my Andrea and Ashley Sundae. She is one of the best advise givers ever, because lets face it, what hasn’t Rhona done? She is amazing. I miss and love her.
Meredith: Even though our friendship has taken a huge hit ever since she got that pesky boyfriend of hers, I hope she knows she is still one of my best friends- I won’t let that change. Meredith is fun and sobering at the same time. She keeps me in check; she won’t let me get too carried away. At the same time I have so much fun with her. She is such a good friend to have.
Kyle: Ehh…who cares?
Ok those are some of my best friends. I do have a lot of really cool, really loved, friends that are worth mentioning too. In no particular order:
Mia: What an awesome friend and dare I say mentor? Always inviting, always there with a well rounded word of advice.
Jamie: FUN. I love her never wavering hugs. She is so caring and kind. Also keeps me on the right track at times…or at least tries to.
Dianna: My fish tank bud. Truly a great person to talk with and receive insight from, and a great friend that I am enjoying getting to know better.
Rebecca Jodine (aka Becky Jo): Is a delight. I love her, and wouldn’t trade our friendship for anything.
Alaina: You know what Alaina, you are a better friend then I think you think you are.
Alexis: Always makes me smile. She is like no one else on this earth and I will never let her go because of this.
Nichole: What a b-day present giver! I love her dearly and it was so nice finally meeting her adorable baby girl.
Female Bobbi: Umm, there is no one other then myself that knows more about me then Bobbi. She is the least judging person ever, and we have no secrets. I love her and am looking forward to chillin with her and Will soon.
Ali: My heart always skips a beat when I see her at church. I love her… she is amazing and so talented.
Traci: I look forward to knowing her better, I love the way she views life. She makes me laugh.
Darren, Josh, and Devin: Cool dudes.
I feel better now. I feel loved, and I love you all. God Bless.
-Penner